Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts

Sunday, 31 May 2026

Life wisdom: What are the seven keys of wisdom?

These are Auntie Thetical's Seven Keys to Wisdom:

* Know yourself.
* Behave ethically.
* Think critically.
* Be mindful.
* Acknowledge the Source.
* Conquer fear.
* Live aesthetically.

Sunday, 17 May 2026

Life wisdom: How do you know if you have wisdom from God?

Here are just 5 signs we're living by God's wisdom:

* We're consistent in what we say and do. 
* We admit humbly when we're wrong.
* We show forgiveness and mercy.
* We're willing to listen to and seek advice.
* We prioritise peace in our relationships.

Sunday, 3 May 2026

Life wisdom: What is the biggest motivation killer?

The Top 5 Motivational Killers:

* Fear of Failure - the fear of failure is one of the most common motivational killers.
* Negative News and People - negative news and people are draining on your energy and time.
* Inaction.
* Don't Live in the Past or Future.
* Hormones.

Sunday, 26 April 2026

Success: What are the 7 secrets of happiness?

The seven secrets of happiness:
* CULTIVATE A PASSION
* BE A LEAF ON A TREE
* BREAK THE MIRROR 
* DON'T RESIST CHANGE
* AUDIT YOUR HAPPINESS 
* LIVE IN THE MOMENT 
* BE HAPPY

Sunday, 19 April 2026

Life wisdom: What are the 7 secrets to success?

The seven secrets are ...
* having clear written goals, 
* making detailed plans, 
* intense focus on results, 
* creativity/imagination, 
* continuous learning, 
* positive thinking and 
* persistence.

Sunday, 12 April 2026

Success: What are the top 7 human needs?

The 7 Fundamental Human Needs:

* Safety/security and survival
* Understanding
* Connection (love) and acceptance.
* Contribution/Participation.
* Esteem, Identity, Significance.
* Self-determination (Autonomy), Freedom, and Justice.
* Self-actualization and self-transcendence.

Sunday, 5 April 2026

Life wisdom: Seven Ways to Find Your Purpose in Life

* Identify the things you care about

* Reflect on what matters most

* Recognize your strengths and talents

* Try volunteering

* Imagine your best possible self

* Cultivate positive emotions like gratitude and awe

* Look to the people you admire

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Sunday, 29 March 2026

Success: What are the common mistakes of successful people?

Just stop doing them.
* Fail To Take Action. 
* While you're busy suffering from “paralysis of analysis,” successful people are out there making moves.
* Quit After The First Try.
* Think They Know Everything.
* Lie To Themselves.
* Fail To Learn From Mistakes.
* Start Without A Plan.
* Believe In Luck. 
* Try To Do It All Themselves.

Sunday, 22 March 2026

Life wisdom: Finding purpose

Purpose can spring from something simple, like a hobby, or more complex, such as contributing your service to your community in some way. While there's no one formula to find that inspiration, there are ways to cultivate it. Here are 10 suggestions to get you started, adapted from the Harvard Special Health Report Self-Care (/scshr). 

2. Think about the obstacles you have overcome in your life.

3. Draw up a purpose timeline.

4. Look for role models.

5. Become a mentor and share your knowledge and skills.

6. Think about what the world needs.

7. Read Viktor Frankl's book Man's Search for Meaning.

8. Write your own story.

9. Write your own obituary. 
(You can do this at any age, maybe not for publication - just for yourself or your family. What do you want to be remembered for? Can any of that inform your purpose now? If you haven't yet achieved something you're especially proud of, remember that it's not too late.)

10. Picture yourself winning the lottery.

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Sunday, 15 March 2026

Success: How do I find the meaning of my life?

* Identify personal 'signature strengths' 
* Seek opportunities to use these for something greater than the self.
* Live life deliberately.
* Volunteer to help others ... and yourself.
* Focus on building strong relationships.
* Use your values to find direction.
* Harness the will to meaning.
* Don't underestimate confidence.

Sunday, 1 February 2026

Success: What are the 4 C's of success?

* Commitment
* Courage
* Capability
* Confidence

Sunday, 25 January 2026

Life wisdom: What are the 8 qualities of wisdom?

Eight skills of wisdom you need to solve any problem:
* Pure (Always check your heart first.)
* Peaceable 
* Gentle
* Open to reason
* Full of mercy
* Full of good fruits
* Impartial
* Sincere

Sunday, 18 January 2026

Success: What are the 7 keys to life success?

The seven keys to success:
* Commitment 
* An Open Mind
* Persistence
* Flexibility
* Faith
* Thankfulness 
* Passion

Sunday, 31 March 2024

Poem: Save me

Save me the joy you experience
When you live the life aside of mine
Save me the calls of experiences 
When you on the life's alter.

Save me the colour Red
For it has never been kind
Save me the moments of joy
For I have never had mine

Save me
Save me the beauty of sunrise
For I have witnessed trauma in my eyes
Save me the smell of coffee
For I had only smelled the crafts of a coffin

Save me 
Save me
Save me from my life
For it has seen many nights
Of kids who die with scars

Save me the night full of stars
And not the dice of cards
For life had played me
Far too long
Save me
Save me from this dark hole
For I still lust the love of Home 

[Israel Xaba:  7 March 2024]

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Sunday, 24 March 2024

Poem: A man's life

It's 12am, I'm woken by a noise
Some say I'm happy
But I don't have a choice.
The women I married
Keep changing over night.

We don't see eye to eye
Without it turn into a fight
I vowed to love her till death do is apart.
The women I married keep shouting over night.

I am the man of the house
With a WOMAN who wears
Pants in the house
Every minute I spend with her

Makes me regret our vows
The woman I married
What is it I don't do right?
Our marriage turned into a fight
When it's 3AM i go to work
And when I arrived it's all war

Why didn't I see this before
That I won't be happy
But today I file in DIVORCE
I don't say much
My writing says it all

We don't communicate
It's like fire and rain
And with all that said
I laydown the ring
You never show me respect

Your actions has pushed me away.
To the woman I married
Today I leave the regret 

[Israel Xaba:  7 March 2024]

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Monday, 25 September 2023

Matrics, always remember ...

the cost of discipline is always LESS than the price of regret. So, self-discipline, is the BIGGEST investment for success in LIFE! 

Good luck for the last school exam. Only your best is good enough!

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